Sandra (30), Stockholm
I am a big believer in polygamy and always been open about it. Basically that’s also the reason why I’m single at 30 – in real life men are way more afraid from open relationship than in fantasy.
Finally I decided it’s a good idea to join the internet dating club; after all there must be plenty out there for everyone’s taste and needs – for those who want to get all serious, have a relationship and get married, have kids, for those who want simply get their leg over, hang out or for those who don’t know what they want.
Thus, I went on a mission to find out what all the fuss is about and see if I can find what I was looking for – light flirt and sex without any complications, no strings attached…
Seems simple. Turned out to be far from that.
One of the first guys I started to chat with, felt pretty much comfortable steering into direction I chosen. And we set a date, which started off just how I wanted it. He was hot and nice, and soon enough we were moving from heavy flirt to clear understanding of leaving for a desert. And the best of all he didn’t want anything else, which was exactly what I wanted.
Everything went well up to the point where he casually dropped into conversation something about his wife. Errr… didn’t I mention I don’t need complications and I am pretty damn sure having a wife is a complication. Unless they have an open marriage – but I did not stay long enough to find out if that’s the case.
I’ve had some more successful dates afterwards, but those are already different stories.